BLT Creamy Mac-n-Cheese via Rachael Ray |
My daughter has declared at the dinner table on many occasions (while practically drinking ketchup or salsa through a straw) her pure and total hatred of tomatoes. Those geniuses at PBS came up with a Daniel Tiger episode last year that contains the song lyrics, "You've gotta try new foods 'cause they might taste good." This helped a little in other food categories, but never with her tomato hatred.
I continued to serve foods with tomatoes in/on them that my daughter could choose to eat or pass up. I did not make a "thing" out of her having to try them again, nor did I leave them out of the recipe because I knew she wouldn't eat them.
To be completely honest, *I* don't love tomatoes...by themselves. But I like them in or with other foods. I finally fessed up to this one day when my daughter saw me eating around the whole cherry tomatoes in my salad. Instead of this bolstering her hatred of the food, I think it helped her view them as a "sometimes" food instead of a "never" food. Our great compromise was BLT's. The girl loves her bacon. Sheepish delight spread over her face one day as she admitted, "I like tomatoes in BLT's." (This has become a great reminder for other foods she continues to insist on hating. But really, she's three and a half...so in reality, she asks what's for dinner every afternoon, and after hearing my answer immediately says, "I don't like ___." Then she asks for seconds that evening.)
So this meal is for my daughter, myself, and all the sometimes-tomato-haters out there. May we all find a dish with a dreaded food that will compel us to ask for seconds.
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